Who I am

My name is Mistress Ellen, though I am also known as Lady Ellen and Boss Ellen.  I have been a Professional Dominatrix since 1994.  I play a key role as Treasurer of the Professional Roleplay Resource Federation, am a member of the DomCon Advisory Board, and have been and continue to be active in many BDSM lifestyle organizations and sites such as Club X, Black Rose, and FetLife.


What is a Professional Dominatrix?

A good Professional Dominatrix is many things to many people.  I am life coach, an educator, a personal consultant, and a friend.  One thing a Professional Dominatrix is NOT is a sexual partner of any kind.


Why do people come to me?

They come to deal with stress, to explore their psyches, to give up control, to explore their pasts and their dreams.  Often, they are too shy to reveal their innermost needs to anyone but me.  They always leave me calmer, more relaxed, and healthier in mind than when they arrived.

When people who come to me have a primary relationship, I help them maintain it.  I teach them how to communicate and be a supportive partner, while still getting what they need from their significant other.


Everything I do is safe, sane, and consensual.  I do not have sex with my clients, nor do I do anything that is illegal, unsafe, or unsanitary.  Alcohol and drugs are never tolerated.  Safe words are always used and respected.

 
Meet Mistress Ellen

Home base: San Diego, California

Also: Orange County and Los Angeles

Appointments: 1-877-295-6778

Phone Sessions: 1-800-863-5478 ex. 0450915

Email: mistresgal@aol.com

Twitter: @mistressellen

Huge Members Area

Just can't get enough of me?  In the Members area of my site you can see me in all my aspects.  Join now, and you won't regret it.  Or take the tour to see what it's all about.


In Person

For those of you looking for more than just an online experience, there are lots of ways you can have my personal attention.  I see submissives and couples in several locations.  I also travel; check my News page to see where I am.


Live Sessions

I offer sessions by special arrangement only. Sessions are safe, clean, discreet and legal. I always use safe words. I do NOT provide sex in sessions, but cover the entire realm of Female Dominance. I will see submissives or couples of all experience levels, from novices who want to explore to advanced players who want to go to the next level.  Call me at 1-877-295-6778 or visit my Sessions page for details and an appointment.


Phone Sessions

Can't make it to see me in person?  Call me on NiteFlirt.  We can advance your training, have a session, or give you life coaching over the phone.


Classes

I've been a professional Dominatrix for many years, and have read and studied my craft extensively.  I can share that knowledge with you.  Please see my Classes page for details.